"If you spend even a fraction of the time that you waste, in finding your own faults, you would have become a great saint by this time. Why do you care for the faults of others? Purify yourself first. Improve yourself first. Reform yourself first. Wash the impurities of your own mind. He who applies himself diligently to his spiritual practices cannot find even a single second to look into the affairs of others."

-Swami Sivananda

AN INSTRUMENT OF THY PEACE/Swami Chidananda in the West

Be A Witness

There is only one secret which is not part of the mind, and that is
witnessing, watching. Thoughts are passing, desires are moving,
memories are coming and going like clouds in the sky and you are
sitting silently simply watching, not doing anything...
And that awareness takes you beyond the mind.
It is true meditation.

Osho